Seeking Optimization Svcs for Page / Website

We are building a virtual LGBTQ center for a rural community.
It will include about 8 key databases and directories. I have designed one that has all the features we want. However, I know that it does a poor job with fonts, graphics, caching, etc. We threw the kitchen sink at it!
I want a pro to look at it and to tell us what we need to change. I want to clean this page/database up before we move to the others.
I am power-user, but a novice coder. The page is: